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This is such a tragedy - every time I click on this thread I know it's just going to be excruciating to read - which it is.

As I've said before, I don't believe in divorce, but honestly if I were Mike and things really were going down exactly as he's describing, I'd have left with the kids already - living in another place, separated. I'd throw away my cell phone and cut off contact completely. Give it a year and then maybe check back.

If she's that self-destructive (sure sounds like it), you don't want to be anywhere near her. You certainly don't want innocent children anywhere near someone like that. People like that have given up and their only motivation is to see how many people they can drag down with them.

Seriously. I'd be out of that situation completely and f*ck what anyone else thinks about it.