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I get along better with my ex now that when we were married. And I see my son all the time. But that took a lot of work and effort as well as sacrifices by both of us. In the end I'm not sure that it wouldn't have been less work to stay together, but the reality is that sometimes there is no perfect solution. Staying together and working it out is likely the easiest. But I don't buy the "staying together for the kids" thing. If it really is toxic the kids will get hurt by that as much or more than by divorce. If both of you can put the kids first, you can likely make either marriage or divorce work.
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