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From what I gather, the Amish put a lot of stock into personal choice, but they also believe that decisions have consequences.

If a young adult decides during Rumspringa not to join the church, that is fine. They are still welcome in the Amish community and are allowed to visit friends and family. If they decide to join the church, that is fine too.

But someone who decides to leave the church after being baptized is considered persona non grata. They are not spoken to, they are not welcome, and it is as if they never existed.