[mikester]

We found out our 94 year old neighbor across the street died recently. His wife is still living there by herself now and she's actually a few months older than he was.

We didn't even know he had been in care due to illness. I feel like such a crappy neighbor and person. I go to work in the morning and I figure if they have put their flag up then everything is okay. I know Harold put the flag up every day. I come to find out that Mary Anne's been doing it now so everything looked normal to me.

Our neighbors on both sides of them do a very good job of watching over them (now just her); I will have to try a little harder I think.

Harold asked for the same thing though, no fan fare, no ceremony - nothing.