[cstreit]

A few thoughts Remember you're an empoyee at will, so do what's best for you.

You didn't really say anything negative about your current company other than the fact that that you were worried about your job. The new one though didn't really sound appetizing to you, just my guy feel.

It's a tough call for sure, but don't let your answer to the new place force you to go if you've decidede to stay, remember look out for number 1. Sure they'll be pissed, but tough... Sounds like you weren't #1 on their list for that position so your opportunities may be less anyway.