[John-1977911s]

A question for some of you regarding having a child at our ages.

I'm 39 and she's 41. We are both near the end of the time-line for having children while still having a little youth left on our side.

Our concerns are:
- being in our 50's and the child still not even a teen.
- Most of our friends do not have children or their kid's are already teens and will soon be on their own.
- Our lives are molded and set - Do we really want to turn everything upside down?

On the other hand -
We are both very youthful, fit and healthy (So our age shouldn't matter so much)
We would get to do all of the things parents get to do when they have children and love it.

I know if we did have a child we would both be thrilled to death and these questions seem silly.... But we still have them.

Does anyone have anything to share Pro or Con regarding this topic.
Thanks.