No offense meant Bill, but I think your position is utterly and completely wrong on this subject. While this is an excellent venue for discussion, it simply cannot compare to what a qualified professional therapist can do to help you. I will grant that a lot of head shrinkers are pretty messed up, but they can provide insight that you are not going to get here. Human beings are social animals. You put yourself in a vulnerable position in a serious relationship, but with that risk there is the potential for great reward. I will confess that I would not piss on my ex-wife if she were on fire, but from that union came a son and daughter that made the ordeal that marriage was worth it. You protect yourself from being hurt by avoiding or denying love, but you are missing so much. That great risk-great reward thing is for real/
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Originally Posted by LWJ
Supe / Dave / Others,
You need help. No joking here. You need professional help. Some kind of Head Doc or therapist. I am not up on the different varieties and there are a few.
I really mean it. A good therapist can open those doors and make the color come back to life.
Good luck all of you. You can do it.
Larry
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Yup.
Seriously Superman, you need to sit down with some kind of head shrinker. A lot of people think it is a bunch of mumbo jumbo, but this is as dangerous as the crushing chest pain you see in a heart attack, the ticking time bomb is an apt metaphor.
I may pitch you a large ration of sh-t here from time to time, but this can be a life threatening type of deal. In the last six months, two different people that I went to grade school and middle school with committed suicide. I am not saying that is your fate, but please take this as seriously as is warranted.
Toby