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Originally Posted by Heel n Toe
Supe, I imagine you explained yourself as well as you could to this woman... if you opened up to her as much as you did to us, she will get past the pain of the breakup a lot sooner than if you hadn't even tried to explain.
BTDT... on both sides of the equation, and can say for sure that it does help the dumpee to know that they didn't cause the breakup..
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I grok that. There has been full disclosure, and there is ongoing communication. Nobody is abandoning anyone. Whew! My relationship with her will surely change. I have no idea what it will become. But it is probably permanent. Many of my relationships are permanent, and I basically know that when they start.