[rcaradimos]

I wish I could help, call the mfg and have your facts down on what wire is connected to what and whats happening.
It could be a function of programing the controller box. On mine if I remember correctly, I had to count flashes of the LED to understand what was being programed in the box; by switching off and on of valet switch.
I set mine up to flash parking lights when being locked or unlocked and auto lock/unlock when I start/shut-off engine. No horn beeps it takes away form hearing the locks actuate.