[nynor]

it kinda comes down to how the family likes you. i had a girlfriend just out of high school. she acted older, bought beer, etc. her dad liked me, which was a first. we'd hang out and watch movies, etc.

one day, i go over and find out that its her birthday. her 16th birthday. i about crapped my pants. we hadn't done it (in fact, we never did, i don't know exactly why), but it was still a shock to be at her 16th birthday party and i felt slightly dirty. i had just turned 18.

anyway, everyone was cool and it seemed like a non-issue and i really liked the girl, so i didn't let it bother me. we dated for about three years. she was great.

i've talked to her since, and we both were a bit non-plussed that we didn't ever get busy.