A man hears nothing a woman says, and a woman hears everything a man says.
If they say it's not you and it's them, it really is you.
I've been married 18 years and the only thing I've figured out is not to argue with them. Never fight back. Ever!
There is nothing I could ever say back that would get to her as much as just ignoring her.
When she used to get on a rant I would just keep doing whatever it was I was doing and act as if she wasn't even in the room. Invisible.
Oh man does she hate that. Big time.
She's gotten to the point where she doesn't get mad at me anymore, it's just not worth it.
the only downside to that strategy is when you pretend she isn't there, she might make that a reality and leave.
But hey, even that's better than having her beotch at you, right?
