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You haven't overstepped anything. The way I see it, you need to do two things: 1) take care of this punk, by whatever means necessary, and 2) try to connect with this poor girl who is obviously in a downward spiral.

This situation could turn around and be looked back on as a "phase" she went through, or she could keep heading down this dangerous road and end up with lifelong consequences - sex, drugs, disease, dropout, crime, physical abuse, prison, death, who knows? That seems to be where this guy is headed. Don't let him drag her down with him.

Unfortunately she's a teenager and may see you as the bad guy - seems she used to doing whatever she wants with nobody to tell her what to do. She needs boundaries, and she needs to see that you genuinely care about her.

Sending prayers your way.