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At the risk of seeming callous, frankly you need to consider you and your own immediate family's needs. If you pull some stunt with this loser and go to jail, what have you won? Odds are the niece is history at this point, and there is little that you can do. About the only thing you can do is tell her that she has a safe haven if she wants it (with you - if you're willing to go there) but on your terms.
Trying to play on the same field with the loser punk is a no-go. He has nothing to lose, you have plenty to lose. You need to honestly assess what you're willing to risk to try and "save" your niece. imho your primary obligation is to your immediate family first, then extended family.
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