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I separated/divorced about 9 years ago and I’ve had to raise my children on my own. Long story but basically my ex left me to be with someone else. (she’ single now)

So the years have passed. I'm 45 now and my girls are 20 and 21. My son is 14 and they’re all doing really well. I couldn’t be more proud of them.
I have dated some women and had a couple of girl friends but having my children always seems to be a problem.
Plus I have a demanding job so that doesn't make it easier.

So here’s the strange realization…

I’ve become really fussy. If a girl isn’t almost perfect in every way then I’m not interested. It seems I’m completely indifferent or immune to any of their charms.
I recently met a girl and she was nice but it just didn’t go anywhere. She was attractive but she had fake boobs and that just put me right off. WTF???

I hope I don’t sound shallow but if they aren’t beautiful and all that then I’m simply not interested. Also they have to have a career… And have their act together.

I can’t help but feel I could be missing out on a really nice lady because she’s not “perfect”.
I’m not perfect by a long stretch but somehow I over look that when I’m sizing up a potential “date.”

My life is great. I have a nice home, great job and things are good. I would really like to meet someone but it seems impossible to find a lady that measures up.

I wasn’t always like this… Anybody else have a similar experience?