[Heel n Toe]

I bet if you wrote down the pros and cons of all the women you ended up rejecting, you'd see that you weren't being overly picky or put off because they weren't perfect... I bet you had perfectly good/legit/rational reasons. Try it... or just run through the list mentally.

For women that reject you because of your kid/s, you have to consider they might have had some bad experiences in the past with guys who "thought their kid could do no wrong" or something.

Give it time... don't beat yourself up for having discriminating tastes and/or seeing potential deal killers early... you're a smart guy. Women can be dicey... the really good ones are hard to find sometimes.