[Evans, Marv]

Some decent advise here, especially Wayne & Todd. But you know what, why don't you just relax? Your life is good and you don't need a woman right away - maybe never if you decide to rent permanently. The best advise I can give is to do things with women because you want to do things & enjoy life (sex included). Don't worry overly about your "list." If you approach the matter with the idea of being friends and doing fun things on a friendly basis (and be up front about that from the beginning), that will free you up to have a good time without worrying about attachments. I think out of that, you may run into someone you will realize you want to spend more time with and possibly consider something more permanent. I think Men & women spend too much time worrying about their "list" and about being seen with "dogs" (within reason) and not enough time worrying about doing fun things with people and enjoying life in general. For example, you might enjoy doing food activities (restaurants, wine tasting, cooking) with somebody who might be a little over weight for your list, but who knows a lot about it & you enjoy doing that type of thing with. Maybe you might like to go bike riding with somebody who is a bit more thin & muscular, & not as shapely as your list calls for, but who you enjoy biking activities with, etc., etc. Just get out there.