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Originally Posted by nynor
chicken.
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I just believe marriage does not bring extra love to the relationship, therefor it is unnecessary. One does not love the other more just because you are married.
It is just a paper, an empty institution, IMO. (your opnion may vary)
And babies... I am 100% sure that not everybody is suitable to raise children.
Everybody has the right to produce and raise offspring but some are just not suiteable/capable, right for the job.
I am one of those people. Too immature, too hooked on my carefree life, too fond of my money that I can spend on whatever I want. The thought of having to care for something and not being able to stop, put it down and do something else, is scary. I just don't want take care of any lifeform more evolved than my ficus.
Maybe my view on this will change, but it has been this way for as long as I can remember...
And I'm not having children because "you'll be an old dad if you don't have one now".
F that.
Or "you'll like it when you have one"
F that, what if I don't? Can I drop it on your doorstep???
Chicken? Maybe, but one that has thought things through for himself.