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I still pick up the phone and call my Dad, and he's 87. The only difference is that now the relationship goes both ways.
I worry about women who have disdain for perceived weakness. It can often mean that they have thoughts and feelings that they keep to themselves, and while you think you know them, there may be a different person inside them running the show. If they were punished for weakness as a child, they may in turn punish others for weakness.
I have no idea if your GF is like this, however,it's a red flag for matrimony.
In a casual relationship, you can just go on for as long as it's enjoyable, and that could be years. However, what is wrong with saying ''These are my kids, and this is how I am raising them. I am always going to be there for them, just as I would always be there for you. This is not up for discussion. Is that a problem ?''
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