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You are getting some great advice here....... take it to heart.
I know it seems impossible to find some good companionship and you WANT to overlook the imperfections when you find one that seems to fill your needs..... The problem is that each of the genders has their agendas...........
Guys, well we all know what guys want........ pretty obvious and straight forward.
Women on the other hand are a lot more complicated and generally do not volunteer their agenda..... They "work" a man on it, passing out favors like kibbles to a dog. Even when they are content, they are always looking to make things better (for themselves). THIS is the breed of women we have produced in the last 50 years.
Your "second" woman will ALWAYS view your kids as a barrier to gaining 100% control over you. The fact that this one has an 11 year old who needs a father, places a real level of urgency on her need to gain full control of the shelter providing, resource producing, image completing opportunity that you represent.
I am sorry to put it so bluntly, but the grass is always greener..........until you find out the cows been pooping in that field, too.......
Change your approach to your social life. Poon is not worth the crappola this one wants to put you through.......
Like Angela said, do it nice,................... but move on.
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