Not meaning to hijack with my own mess, but estranged spouse has gone bat chit crazy. She wants a 6 figure settlement for a four year marriage.
She is completely out of touch with reality.
Anyways, to get it back on track, learn from my romance induced ignorance that jumping into a blended family at middle age is fraught with problems. What a dumbazz I've been. But the fog has cleared and things are gonna be good shortly.