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Originally Posted by genrex
She (or her lawyer) may have a strategy of drawing this out in hopes of finding something to attack you with... hiring a photographer to take seemingly-compromising photos, phone records, whatever.
The sooner the legal process gets started, the better. I would file the petition now, and deal with the negotiating later.
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wow man its obvious you HAVE NOT BEEN THRU A DEE-VORCE. it aint like spy vs spy!
in just about ALL 50 states it is now 50/50 from the moment you are married. all assets accrued from that exact time frame become 50/50. from the moment one party the plaintiff serves the defendant , ALL ASSETS ARE FROZEN PERIOD!
that means you dont get her inheritance and she dont get yer trust fund. on the down side if ya hit it big on the market or got the corner office with a fat raise while you were married or hit the lottery.......................yer SCREWED! because THAT IS COMMUNITY PROPERTY and it will be divided 50/50 because you attained it while married. if you took a loan for 50K while married she is liable for 50% and so are you. same with credit cards.
if ya bought a house a boat a p-car had (2) kids and (2) kats in the yard it becomes 50/50.
without substance abuse, without criminal activity,without jail or prison or insanity in the equation(must be certified insane-not just feeking pyscho crazy) then kids are generally split 50/50 also as well as the cats.
so if ya had (2) porsches, she gets one and you get one. you sell the house and she gets 1/2 the bucks and so on.
the courts nor the lawyer give a ratts azz if yer caught with yer panties down boinking some midget bim bett w/44DD's nor do they care if she pulls a train with the entire NFL!
the best thing you can do is get off the lawyers clock and get it over ASAP! lawyers love long drawn out he said she said drama. it helps pay for their 2011 p-car. or race an entire season on your wallet.
dee-vorces are like wiping yer azz nowadays. it happens every day.
welcome to the club. getting dee-vorced is like getting a NEW LIFE to START OVER AND UPGRADE ON THE OPTIONS!
be like me and snag a new one with all the features yer last model DIDNT HAVE!
and one thats 12 years younger than ME!
LIFE IS GOOD NOW! like wayyyy better than it ever was. its all about finding a "KEEPER" and 12 years of being single taught me just that.