[Laneco]

I'm not sure how old the child was when adopted, or if the child knows they are adopted, but that figures into this significantly.

If a child is aware they are adopted, I think it is particularly important to demonstrate that good or bad, divorced or married, a family is permanent. People you love do not simply drift away or become shunned due to divorce. They are family, just like the adopted child.

I do not envy your position. But you gotta stick this one out.

angela