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SM,
At times all you can do is do what you have to do. Partly for him, partly for you.
I lost a good friend this past summer (cancer) and all I could do was take my guitar in and sing the songs we had played and written together, When the end came, he didn't want anyone to see him so weak and sick.
Four years ago it was another long-time friend. Once his diagnosis of ALS came through and he started deteriorating, he wouldn't even let his family see him.
I'm not sure why some are like that, whether it is a fear of showing weakness or a fear of acknowledging this is really happening. You can't change things, all you can do is what you did.
Be there.
Thoughts and prayers to you.
Les
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Les
My train of thought has been replaced by a bumper car.
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