[Crowbob]

No pics so yes you are an idiot. The answers to your questions are debatable. You have a ton in common and have a blast hanging out. Why mess that up? As the song goes: "...And then you go and spoil it all by saying something stupid like I love you." She's not ready and she's teling you the truth. Her being in the middle of a messy divorce-with kids-is playing with fire. Back off, enjoy the ride(s) if you must but be careful, son. Very careful.