[kaisen]

He very well may have depression, but it sounds like he also has an anxiety disorder. They are treated differently, with different medication. His psychiatrist will only know if he shares all of his feelings, which men don't always (or usually) do.

If things do go South and he hits bottom, he will not lose custody of his daughter unless he chooses to act poorly. But simply having no money or job and being on welfare will not be enough to cause the state to give away his rights.