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I have pretty much trained my wife out of the emotional blackmail. And we have had the talk where I told her I need certain things in life, and that while I do love her and care for her, I am going to have those things with her or without her, so choose please. I need a nice place to live, and a home where I can find peace. That is non negotiable.
I now have a housekeeper come in every three weeks, and that means the house needs to be picked up so that it can be cleaned. This ensures that at least once a month the house is orderly, and the best part is that my wife thinks I am doing it for her.
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