[masraum]

Ok, if it's got meat on it, then it's not a grilled cheese. It may be a patty melt or a grilled ham and cheese or something like that, but a grilled cheese is primarily bread, cheese and something to help brown the bread (presumably butter). I guess adding some sort of condiment might be ok, or even something like bacon bits or a couple of pieces of jalapeno.

I do love a grilled cheese. I'll eat them with American cheese, but that's not nearly the best. A velveeta (sp) grilled cheese is how I grew up. There are somethings that velveeta are good at, and getting all melty and gooey is one of them.

What I like even better than velveeta is Butterkase. It melts really well and is mild, but it does have more flavor than velveeta.

I'd be willing to try other cheeses as well if I happened across them.