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Originally Posted by Turbo_pro
The therapist said basically the same thing, she won't quit until she's ready but you can set terms that may make her uncomfortable about her decision to smoke..
Things like refusing to be near her when she smokes.
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We set up a separate room for my wife to smoke in. It wasn't good enough for her. She said it wasn't really her house if she couldn't smoke anywhere she wanted. In the end her smoking was a big factor in ending the marriage. You can't quit unless you want to and she didn't want to.
I remember the moment my wife stood on our deck, cigarette in hand, and told be she was pregnant.
I remember when she was seriously ill and the doc asked her how much she smoked. "A lot and I'm not quitting, so forget it."
It's such a shame.