[Groesbeck Hurricane]

Hmmm, seems we need more information:

Oldest is in 40's

Middle is in late 30's

Youngest is 21

Parents in 60's

Does this change opinion?



Do you include grandchildren if only one of the children was able to have children? Does it matter if one has little or no contact or influence on the grandchildren?

This is an interesting line of thought.




Oh, I have no living children. When I go what is left will go to some of my close friend's children, unless Wife survives me (though she questions sometimes whether I will live out the day ;-).

I've seen some horrible things in my life. I had a family member demand money from us when my father died. Of course, they received nothing. I've seen wealth most of us would dream of having be squandered in a very few short years because the departed hoped their child would change once they received it.

We have been trying to get my mother to spend her money on herself before she goes. Don't know she ever will as she is approaching 90 and shows little chance of changing her ways. Oh, and she has gone through and marked stuff. I'm not mentioning the sticker thing to her, don't want to encourage her in thinking of going just yet. She's still a bit too young ;-)