[Evans, Marv]

Too bad you can't/won't let your friend know about this. In that case you will eat it big time. Yes, you should go in there and take out everything you put in. It's yours, not her's. The small claims court may be your only option to recoup some of your money. Actually you probably won't get anything out of her, but you might get a settlement from the Commissioner. There are a couple of threads about small claims court. Best of luck to you. It really takes the wind out of your sails when something like this happens.