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Originally Posted by look 171
What does the family have to do with it?
I have never had to do this, so where do I start?
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Well, you said she was the friend of your best friend.
Now, what would go down better with your best friend?
- You going in, tearing the place up over a disagreement?
- You talking to your best friend, about a disagreement with his sister, in an effort to resolve it?
Either way you will test the friendship, the former will test his ability to tolerate weirdness. The latter will test his ability to back you up, as the best friend he is?
Note, i'm not saying he is expected to resolve it for you, but if he is your best friend, he can at the very least try to intermediate, even if it's from a neutral position.