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We been married 2 years. She has 2 boys 14 and 19 and mine are 16 and 17. One can wax emotional about the utopia of a blended family and all thats seems so dreamy. Reality is that she is your step and you are a step. You will NEVER take the place of her father, regardless of how much of a piece of crap that he may be, my situation. I know its hard to be invested in her life and then she may want only her dad to consult with. Thats the life of a step parent. If she wants you to go, AND it won't make things uncomfortable for her with all 3 of you there then by all means go for it. But, keep in mind how she would feel, regardless of what she says. my 2 cents from a step with 2 steps
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