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Aurel,
Tough choices to make...
Its great that you have the choices to make and are keen to find out what others think.
Might I suggest a different approach...
You have mentally and emotionally made the leap to a new life in ABQ....perhaps your wife has not and she is mourning the loss of her life in NJ, the home there and this anxiety is a normal state to be in, sad at what she has to leave behind, apprehensive about the future.. all of which is easily blamed on the money side of it.
Assuming that is the case (if I'm wrong then sorry)...perhaps you can help in a different manner, one that you know would suit that part of her emotions more effectively than the 'money' side.
It's a challenge for certain and one approach is to welcome it for the potential it brings..and acknowledge the cost to us and others.
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Share with me. Teach me something I didn't know. Make me think. But don't make me a bit player in your passion play of egotism. Dueller. 13/03/09
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