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I agree with 10-911-65 on this. You are both adults, so why don't you try having a talk with her as adults and lay your thoughts & feelings out on the table as well as your concern about the danger to the friendship. As adults, you should both be able to stick your toes into the water and see how deep it gets. If it were me, I'd discuss a relationship without strings attached (assuming you progress to the kind of relationship you want) and with the understanding either of you could walk away or not as the relationship dictated. I understand your concerns though. My wife is 25 years younger than I am, and I'm unfortunately entering the "golden years" of my life, and although I can still do as much or more than people much younger there is no guarantee that will continue. In fact it won't. I knew my wife for 13 years before we were married, so we at least had the friendship as a basis to build on. At this point we couldn't be happier.
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Marv Evans
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