dentist - what's that saying about great minds think alike?!?
One more thought for HHI944 -- if you want the "warm fuzzies" then get an electric blanket! In a very practical sense, marriage should be one of the most cold-hearted decisions you make.
To clarify: don't let your emotions get in the way of what true unconditional love is about.
Unconditional love is a love that seeks nothing in return for what you do or give. It is not a love that expect to receive anything in return for what you give. "Greater love hath no man than this -- that he lay down his life for his friend." Tell me HHI944 -- are you willing to sacrifice your life for this lady? Are you willing to take care of her when she doesn't have her whits about her? Would you be willing to care for her if she was in a fire and half her face and body were burned beyond recognition? Would you be proud to be her husband if she became an alchoholic or drug addict? Or developed diabetes or MS or any other terrible disease? Or was unfaithful? Do you think she'd love you if the opposite happened?
These are not questions that people typically ponder, but these types of questions should be asked and thought about, and will ultimately help you understand what love is about.
-Z-man.