[Superman]

As others have said, you are going to do what you are going to do and these nitwit Pelicanheads are not going to dissuade you. That being said, here is my input:

I was married nearly 23 years to a woman I HAD TO HAVE a long time ago. I remember very clearly and respect very dearly the heart of a passionate twenty-something man, and I am glad I did what I did, even when it was a mistake. This weekend I was feeling melancholy and chatting with my current squeeze, who is a wonderful, independent, active, slender, pleasant, trustworthy, GGG, left-handed redhead who is an excellent cook and loves the Blues....and I was reminiscing that I've always been quite fearful, but rarely if ever backed away because of fear. It was scary, but I worked straight into and through those fears. As a consequence, people say they have admired my sense of adventure and courage and willingness to "dance like nobody is looking, sing like nobody is listening and love like I've never been hurt." And now I am 53 year old. Still quite vital, but with occasional bouts of melancholy since I am starting to think my Olympic gymnastic hopes will never be fulfilled. And you know what (and this is a first class mistake-maker talking, mind you).........I do not have regrets about what I did.

My regrets are about what I did not do.