[LakeCleElum]

Markus: I think how we view death depends largely upon your religion. All I'm aware of belief in an after-life of some sort. Most would teach it's a better life, so if you believe, what do you have to fear? Other than being separated for the time being from your loved ones?

For the non-believer, it's the end and that bothers most. For many of the older like your dear father, death is relief from pain and a chance for a really good nap!

Here's respect to your father - he suffered enough.