[stomachmonkey]

Keep looking.

My father and your grandfather sound very much alike.

Unfortunately it sometimes means things don't go as planned.

My father had a DNR, would have been good for him to let us know before I finally made the decision to pull the plug. Would have made it easier had I known.

He would also have been buried in his dress blues as he wanted.

Make sure everyone who is looking for the will knows to not pull any staples. They may think it's a good idea to make copies for everyone but all it does is invalidate the will.