[Por_sha911]

Unfortunately, when someone's self-esteem is based on what they have instead of who they are inside, then the embarrassment of the failure is too much to bear. At that point, they will try to keep up the facade at any cost. We all know someone who is always bragging about what they just bought and how much it cost. They are looking for validation by having stuff. They don't realize that even though we see the stuff is desirable, we don't admire who they are just because they have it.

Alcoholism, (or any foolish behavior like drug abuse, reckless spending, etc.) is self-medication to avoid pain, fear, etc. Until they admits they need help, giving them more money is only going to delay the inevitable. IMO, they need some tough love which lets them crash and burn and then is quick to help pick up the pieces when they admit they made foolish decisions that got them where they are.