[VaSteve]

Let her define the rules in her favor. Buyer picks up. Will no hold. First person with cash, etc.

Everyone has paypal, please send the money and I'll hold it for you to pick up.

I like craigslist. Email me and if your response isn't too stupid, I will call you with my address to come pick up during the hour I'm around cutting the lawn.

The level of BS you're willing to accept is proportional to how bad you want the $$ in your pocket. I had some woman dicker me down on a set of patio chairs (the table broke) and she showed up in a giant Caddilac Escalade. (Back when the economy was good).