[Groesbeck Hurricane]

Larry,

Here are my random thoughts:

Give her the money for 30 days rent.

Sit down with her and talk about how much YOU need to have someone staying with you and how it would be so very nice if it were her. Talk about your needs and how she can help you out. Don't know what your needs are but I'm sure you are busy and could use help around the house, someone to talk to, someone who knows you to brainstorm your business ideas, and someone to work for you completing those tasks you just do not have time to complete.

The 30 days rent will allow you to consolidate her things in an orderly fashion. Moving into your spare room will consolidate spend and save everyone money in the long run.

Turn this into her helping you out, this is her opportunity to do something you need.


Now, you need to seek some psychiatric advice if you are going to take her on. Keep yourself level headed and in the game.

You will need to work HER into psychiatric help of some sort. Maybe it is through the church, maybe it is through a mental health agency, maybe there is another route. She MUST eventually reach out for help to get better.

You will be her crutch and she will start to expect things of you. Is there a danger either one of you could start to believe this is a romantic situation? This would lead to more issues.

Also, you need to check on her meds. Do they conflict with each other? Is she taking them as needed? Does she really need them or are they what is causing the issue? What is the underlying cause of this pain?


I have some friends we have given an open door invitation when things were down. It gave them the knowledge they would not sink into the streets. Sometimes it is what we do for those we love.