[mhariush]

And I checked terminal 30 (for the dme relay) with a spade plug into it with the red wire on the volt meter and the black on the - battery and it came up with 11.86 volts, so close enough i think. So at least the DME relay has power...

I went under to change my fuel filter, gotta change that anyway, and I also looked at the pump. I disconnected the green wire on the pump and used a test lead from + on battery to the fuel pump where the green goes, no action.
I disconnected the brown wire and used my volt meter, with the battery to the car connected, and check the two wires with the ignition in "on", all the way to the right, before it cranks, and i got no reading at all. Will it only show a reading when the car cranks? Or should it still show voltage?