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Originally Posted by nynor

hey guys.

my dating advice, from much research: don't ask for a phone number. don't even ask them out for a date. ask them if they'd like to JOIN you for coffee (or something else that is similarly simple and public). if they decline, move on, no biggie. if not, you are in. it is that simple. you have set the agenda, check. it is easy and easily escapable, check. it is public and safe, check. after they say yes, set a date, preferably in the IMMEDIATE future, like that evening or afternoon or the next day. THEN get their number when you meet for coffee, if all is working out.

Don't ask me for dating advice I have been married for 22 years.