[recycled sixtie]

about this if you like but I think I am right. In my fairly long life(in my 60's), I have seen this more than once and I find it very disturbing. Two men I have known in the present and in the past have a wife with cancer in palliative care and alzeimers in long term care respectively. Each one has a girlfriend while their respective spouse lies in hospital. What do you say to this kind of man? Anything or nothing? Conversely if u were the man lying in hospital, would you be okay with your wife having a boyfriend? Are men more likely to do this than women?
I go with sticking with the wife thru thick and thin. I would appreciate your comments.