[stomachmonkey]

Tough one.

I would stick with my wife but it is not my place to judge others.

Had a very good friend pass 2 weeks before his 40th birthday.

He had been sick for a while and kept it private so it was a shock to those who knew him.

How long his wife had been dealing with it is unknown but it was most certainly a couple of months at least.

They have two children, both under 6.

Month or so ago we heard she was in a new relationship and at first the thought was "that seems awfully quick".

Then I saw the pictures of her new guy playing with my friends children and I got angry.

But the more I thought about it the more it comforted me. He looks to be a great guy. He loves her and looks like he'll make a fine stepdad.

And the reality is nothing is bringing Matt back.

He lives in FL and she just finished moving there this week.

I believe Matt would want her to be happy and for his kids to grow up with a father.

Life goes on.