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Yep, we went through this particular form of hell several years ago when my grandfather died. He lived with us for the last few months and my wife took care of hm, cooked all of his meals, drove him to the Dr's, etc... for 5 years. When he died, his son, who had not seen his father in years, came and wanted everything... not that there was anything... We gave the son the small amount of $ in the estate and the son didn't want a memorial service, but we insisted. Over 100 people came to the memorial service and we were glad that we had one as many people loved my grandfather and they wanted "closure"... Rough times, for sure!