[Zeke]

Well, for you guys that want to be cremated with no service, that wasn't the question. I think he meant for people who have willed a preference.

Since I don't prefer a service, maybe none will take place. It's not all up to me. I was surprised at how my dad's death was handled. Cremation and burial at sea.

He never even went to the beach, much less out on the water. We scattered my mom's ashes out at the golf course. Much more fitting. Our "service" was dinner at the country club.

Her kind of day.