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Originally Posted by HHI944
G-man, maybe you're right. I just saw it as a gesture of good will....I hit the point a while ago where I realized I shouldn't/couldn't be angry anymore...I forgave her in my own mind....it was merely a gesture of good will.
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I'm sure you had good intentions, but she (and him) may see that differently...
And although you say you're not hurting anymore, it still occupies your mind, and that is not a good thing. You need 100% full closure. (a rebound fuhk would be my preferred way of closure)..
EDIT, if you know the guy, it kinda explains it a bit. I'll give you that.
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Originally Posted by HHI944
The bartender is a really sweet person and I'm sure a lot of 'fun', I just don't see it going long term or even lasting more a decent short term.
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Decent short term is all you need.
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Originally Posted by HHI944
The mom caught my attention and for more than just physical reasons (though she is rather attractive)........I think my 'no kids' standard is just going to have to flex to allow for kids as long as they can support the kids with no help...
I wish there was a morally un-objectionable way to push the mom off until after NYE and spend NYE with the bartender....
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If you're a man of high morals, I cannot help you...
The mom and the neighbour are NOT the way to go. You're not in the right place.