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Originally Posted by porsche4life
Either keep the friend around and hope at some point things change, or don't and go out and find another. Its really a personal choice for you, is this one worth sitting around waiting for?
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Originally Posted by LubeMaster77
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Sorry, I didn;t see that - move on, this joker doesn't know a fine women if it bite him in the nose!
Now, one thing that does strike me is that you stated you don't know if you could be 'just friends' with him. Hmmm....is the desire to jump his bones that strong? Would seeing him with another women or talk about one hurt that much?
Seems like the shoe is on the other foot now doesn't it?!? How many guys do you think there are that would love to love you that you think are nice and all that but have no feelings for them in that way? Plenty.
Da Boyz haf ta play by da rulez so wise not da sista?
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Sid, I am not "waiting", I have gone out with other guys. And Lube, yes, there are plenty of guys out there asking me out. Problem is, yes, the desire for this one particular guy is that strong. The other guys, nothing, zilch.
But it sounds like the resounding answer is to move on which is basically the conclusion I have come up with. I have tried to not talk to him but he texts me or calls. So should I just tell him straight out to leave me alone? Seems harsh. Well, I gotta do what I gotta do I guess.
Thanks for the advice, guys!