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Originally Posted by gprsh924
Are you interested in this guy from a potential relationship standpoint, or merely a from a physical aspect?
If he knows you are into him, it's possible that even if he's attracted to you, he won't act on it because he doesn't have the same feelings and doesn't want to screw up a friendship.
Just another possibility.
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OK, I think I might have messed this one up from the beginning. I had NO interest in him at the beginning. I even called him by the wrong name for quite some time. Yikes! But then when I got to know him and we started talking daily, I really started to dig him. At the beginning though, I did say once to him,"I am not looking for a relationship." Uggggg!!!! Because honestly, I wasn't. But man, we clicked on so many levels, I couldn't just keep seeing him as a "friend". Definitely relationship now but I think I gave off the vibe as NO RELATIONSHIP at the beginning. And now that I think of it, when I called him out, I didn't say I liked his whole being, I said I was
physically attracted to him and said nothing else. UGGGGG!!!! Sometimes I am such a guy! He is older so he says he is looking for a relationship. And at the time we had this conversation, he aske me straight up if I was looking for one and I said no. I am an idiot.
OK, OK, I get it. I messed this one up and I need to chalk it up as a learning experience...